Not wanting to hate on half the population I've been slack-cutting and finding workarounds for forty years. I truly enjoy male energy when it's directed towards building or accomplishing something as a cooperative crew. I've been on lots of crews—racing sailboats, building stage sets & shooting educational sports videos—most often as the only female. Humor helped. But after two elections of a pedophile rapist I've given up on them entirely because even all those 'not all men' have yet to inspire a more evolved gender, either by example or policing. Women (not all) tried, failed, are leaving the battlefield enmass and doing our best to take care of each other as our rights are being stripped. I haven't, however, given up on gay men. Gay guys have never abused or betrayed me.