Raised this way. Shamed into marrying the guy who popped my cherry (18). I worked to support us & was in college full time. He? Quit his job, stole my jewelry to buy pot to sell. Smoked it with his friends instead. They stole the rest of my stuff. Got scary pissed off if I was too exhausted for sex. Divorced at 19. That was 1974. Never tried it again. My life since? Full of friends, independence, creativity, adventure & rewarding work I chose. No kids. Highly recommended! Let's keep the Dems in so this continues to be an option.